The 'five' will simply 'overwrite' your temporary hit point total since it's higher than the previous 'three'.so then if i have 3 temps and my friend wants to give me five can i get rid of the 3 and take the 5 or do i have to take at least 3 damage first?
You are (totally wrong).I may be totally wrong here, but I was under the impression that temporary hit points don't stack if they're from a different source. But, for example, if I have an at will that gives me 3 temporary hit points, I can add those together every time I hit with it.
This exception was removed by an update. Now, temp HP never stack.Temporary hit points generally do not stack. There's a fighter build that can occasionally stack temporary hit points though, but that's an exception to the general rule.