Honestly, I think ENWorld is your best bet.
I use it for my "general" RPG talk and news. For specific games, I'll join their matching Discords. Troll Lord Games has one of my favorites if you're into OSR.
what do you mean by that?there vaguely offputting
Reddit is probably the best bet, but /rpg has its games it's passionate about and hates. I think that's true of the various Facebook groups as well.There's always reddit. Though finding the right sub reddit can be easier said then done.