abirdcall
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They're not technically in conflict: The Working Together option is in the skills section, whereas the combat Help action is a different option, in the combat section. Hence why Jeremy clarified that you don't need to be able to attack yourself in order to take the help action to aid another's attack.
I'd personally probably houserule it the same as you though.
You're right, but also, it specifically says that the combat Help action is the same as 'working together' for skills. The very next sentence after the bit about the combat Help is about needing to be able to do it.
" In combat, this requires the Help action. A character can only provide help if the task is one that he or she could attempt alone."
If the intent was to have combat Help different it should have been separate. It specifies combat Help, and then uses 'help' in the next sentence. Talk about confusing!
But yes, I concede that once Jeremy has clarified it then that is the rule. 5e is mostly built on natural language so it's strange that here we have a rule that is about technicalities; "Help" is different than "help".