Gradine
🏳️⚧️ (she/her) 🇵🇸
I can't give you exp right now (which is weird because you're not even on my list of last 20 exp given...) but I would if I could. A completely sensible attitude that most ensures the enjoyment of everybody at the table that will no doubt be derided for "soft" DMing...Gort, if you are the DM... then you get to control what happens with the monsters. Just because they can get past the fighter's mark doesn't mean they have to. And just because they can focus fire and take out one of the strikers fairly quickly doesn't mean they have to. You can have them do whatever you want to create maximum enjoyment for your players and the game. And without a leader, having the monster's tactics change to account for that is good DMing.
Now I know several other DMs might say "I refuse to have my monsters act illogically!" and thus try and make us believe that they have no choice but to cream their PCs... but that's a bunch of baloney and we all know it. If this is the attitude a DM has... then they have to reap what they sow. Go ahead and focus fire kill off a PC at a time, but don't then come complaining here that your player's characters aren't able to survive.
I don't know if this is the kind of attitude you have when playing your monsters, but I would hope not. You control what they do to make the best game you can... you aren't beholden to any sort of stupid versimilitude as if your game was being watched by Mutual of Omaha's Wild Kingdom and have to make sure all the enemies act as realistic as possible lest someone jump out from behind the curtains shouting "Why are those four bugbears each going one-on-one with those PCs?!?".
That said, it's still always good to let one or two slip by from time to time; gotta keep those strikers/controllers on their toes some how
