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How Can You Politely Say, "Your Character Sucks?"
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<blockquote data-quote="Kinneus" data-source="post: 5069027" data-attributes="member: 48215"><p>To provide more information: we used the standard point buy, as per the Character Builder, so 'bad rolls' can't be blamed for his stats. Also, the reason I see the issue as pressing is because stats are the one thing you can't 'fix' in 4e along the way. I fear that the longer it goes unsaid, the less likely the DM will be willing to permit changes, when and if the player decides he wants to shift things around. Since the player of the swordmage is obviously new, I'm hoping he'll be lenient. He seems like a reasonable DM.</p><p> </p><p>I've decided on a course of action. When we played the other night, a couple of the players didn't have macros set up for their characters, the swordmage included. I think I'll send out a mass email to all the players, offering to make macros for any player who needs help. This will give me a pretext to view the swordmage's character sheet, and a reason to engage him in polite, non-judgemental conversation about his build.</p><p> </p><p>Please see my previous post in this thread for more information; people are re-hashing some points I've already clarified. Although, I recognize that this thread has grown beyond me and my group, here. I seem to have hit on a nerve, which I fully understand. As I said before, I've been chased away from games due to other players "helpful hints," so I'm looking to be as tactful as possible.</p><p> </p><p>With that said, I think I'll just back away from this thread slowly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kinneus, post: 5069027, member: 48215"] To provide more information: we used the standard point buy, as per the Character Builder, so 'bad rolls' can't be blamed for his stats. Also, the reason I see the issue as pressing is because stats are the one thing you can't 'fix' in 4e along the way. I fear that the longer it goes unsaid, the less likely the DM will be willing to permit changes, when and if the player decides he wants to shift things around. Since the player of the swordmage is obviously new, I'm hoping he'll be lenient. He seems like a reasonable DM. I've decided on a course of action. When we played the other night, a couple of the players didn't have macros set up for their characters, the swordmage included. I think I'll send out a mass email to all the players, offering to make macros for any player who needs help. This will give me a pretext to view the swordmage's character sheet, and a reason to engage him in polite, non-judgemental conversation about his build. Please see my previous post in this thread for more information; people are re-hashing some points I've already clarified. Although, I recognize that this thread has grown beyond me and my group, here. I seem to have hit on a nerve, which I fully understand. As I said before, I've been chased away from games due to other players "helpful hints," so I'm looking to be as tactful as possible. With that said, I think I'll just back away from this thread slowly. [/QUOTE]
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