Me too!I like 3.5Ed most. Does that make me a Neo.5nard? Neofnord? Pointfivenard? Deminard?
Me too!I like 3.5Ed most. Does that make me a Neo.5nard? Neofnord? Pointfivenard? Deminard?
I’m not so nardy...errrr...groggy...errrrr....stuffy that I won’t play other editions.* I just haven’t seen anything in the D&D product family post 3.5Ed I’d ever consider running. I’ve got the initial 4Ed Core 3 plus LOTS of the player-centric books- those with classes, races, feats, etc., for example. But that’s it.Perfect world would probably alternate game sessions.
Maybe I'm looking more at myself since I turned 40, but I'm wondering what traits led me to become a grognard?
1) Not using projectors for maps at the game table
2) Backing off from 4E to play Pathfinder a decade ago
3) Backing off from 5E to play 4E currently (haha)
4) Not following Critical Role
5) Not active on Discord or Reddit but preferring message boards like ENWorld
6) Using miniatures and tactical combat over "theater of the mind"
7) Not using D&D Beyond
8) Not getting into Virtual Tabletops like Fantasy Grounds or Roll 20
9) Using dice instead of die rolling apps
10) Not liking people using PDFs at the table (preferring physical copies)
I have those dice!
And for the OP - I’d say you disqualified yourself from being a grognard by NOT using theater of the mind.
Oh, we had minis. But battlemats? Grids? Bah! That didn’t start until 2.5e. If a measurement needs to be made it’s with string or a tape.
But really the minis were to look cool, not to turn D&D combat into a board game. Theater of the mind is the real old school way (and I’m happy it’s made a comeback).
I beg to differ. Having started playing D&D in 1975 I assure you that there was combat on the table top with the terrain drawn out, and it was pretty much THE way it was done in our neck of the woods. I never heard of this 'Theater of the Mind' or playing without stuff laid out on the table with minis until at least the mid 80's and then we only did it because we were in college and just didn't have a large surface to use in our dorm rooms!
After I graduated and got my own place, we were right back to BIG table tops with full layouts. Even if we had a small table, still laid it all out. Did this in every type of game we played to varying degrees right on up to today.
I'm not saying everyone did this, but TotM is DEFINITELY NOT some 'Ur state' of D&D that has 'returned'.

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