Nonlethal Force
First Post
I chose answer 1 out of my perspective as a player - although I qualify it. I didn't feel exactly right in choosing the sencond choice, but maybe I should have. When I play, I like to focus on my character. And as a player, I hate the feeling of taking a cohort just so I can have someone to "patch my character's weaknesses." Not saying that's what it is, but it is saying that is sometimes how the decision feels.
[Aside] I think player's use the cohort feat too often this way. If you think about real like, cohorts are more likely to be similar characters than opposites. A fighter is likely to attract a warrior-cleric, a paladin, ranger, fighter, etc. Probably not a mage. A mage is unlike to attract anyone that doesn't share with their arcane interests and abilities.[/Aside]
This is why as a player I like the DM to control the cohort with the understanding that the cohort wants to be a follower of my character and thus will likely listen to my character the majority of the time. But with the DM playing the cohort it makes me feel like the cohort is more real and not simply a "free" second character or a "patch" for my current character.
I think the DM should play the cohort, the DM should make all final decisions, but In Character the cohort can get sugestions from my character for advice on what my character would think wise.
I realize the RL argument doesn't transcribe well to RPs .... but how many of us get to be our own best friend? IRL we have the human element to deal with - other people think differently. That is the aspect I like most about having a cohort.
The potential to think differently about a topic but having the same desire outcome.
[Aside] I think player's use the cohort feat too often this way. If you think about real like, cohorts are more likely to be similar characters than opposites. A fighter is likely to attract a warrior-cleric, a paladin, ranger, fighter, etc. Probably not a mage. A mage is unlike to attract anyone that doesn't share with their arcane interests and abilities.[/Aside]
This is why as a player I like the DM to control the cohort with the understanding that the cohort wants to be a follower of my character and thus will likely listen to my character the majority of the time. But with the DM playing the cohort it makes me feel like the cohort is more real and not simply a "free" second character or a "patch" for my current character.
I think the DM should play the cohort, the DM should make all final decisions, but In Character the cohort can get sugestions from my character for advice on what my character would think wise.
I realize the RL argument doesn't transcribe well to RPs .... but how many of us get to be our own best friend? IRL we have the human element to deal with - other people think differently. That is the aspect I like most about having a cohort.
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