In response to the internet access deal, here's where my groups are on it:
I have two different gaming groups at the tabletop (not online, a third group). Combined, these two groups give me eight players, plus myself. Of them, all but one has internet access. Some have limited access, and others regular access. But most of my friends do not read gaming sites and fora. In fact, I find in general, of all the gamers I know (beyond my group, add another half-dozen or so former players or part of our social circle), most get the few books needed to play in a campaign, maybe supplements and the ilk that suit their particular jones, and otherwise, don't care to worry about the rest. Same with online groups like ENWorld and RPG.net and their likes. They may or may not know the exist, but it's just not in their interest to try and keep up with it all. I was the one that broke the news of 4e to my groups, and I'm pretty sure if I hadn't, most (if not all) would be unaware still of its impending arrival. And one of those friends (oddly enough, the one without internet access) works at Barnes and Noble.
Take that for what it's worth.
Take care
Don