kreynolds
First Post
Artoomis said:Actually, I do have an ideaI've been there, and now I'm going to impart a few unsolicted words of wisdom, drawn from my own experiences:
1. Never respond to a post with a nasty tone, unless you do so in the most civil manner possible, totally ignoring the nastiness.
2. Stick to game issue, and never, ever bring in personalities (see #1 above for what to do if someone eklse does it).
3. If someone says you are stating something that you believe you are not, don't say "I didn't say that." Instead, ask why they think you said it, and take the opportuntiy to make your position clearer. Assume that you were not clear enough in your communication and try again.
4. Don't defend youself as if you were being personally attacked. Assume the best, and keep all debate civil. Trust the board moderators to monitor and stop uncivil dialog.
Trust me. These things work. It's how we keep a civil society.
Of course, the other option is to just yell, scream and fight with each other until one side finally quits from exhaustion.
Of course, this is good advice, but not suited to everyone. Nevertheless, I do try. However, I'm only willing to try for so long. I have a very small bull<bleep!>-o-meter.