Question to the OP.
Above you state that the partys wizard wasnt casting spells as he was busy maintaining concentration.
Are you aware that you can still cast spells while maintaining concentration?
You just cant cast another concentration spell while maintaining concentration.
I'm curious why your party Wizard wasnt lobbing spells into the battle on his action each round?
The reason I said that is I cannot remember exactly what he did round 1 of combat.

They also didn't want to open up with fireballs and the like because they agreed that they didn't want to kill "innocents", the battlefield has mingled with what looked like common drow and kuo-toa.
From his perspective all the serious enemies were bottled up inside his wall of force. He wasn't aware of the invisible drow wizard until about round 2 or 3. Also he rolled 7 on initiative, so after the surprise round he had a lot of enemies going before him.
Round 1 - I can't remember what he did.
Round 2 - He dashed to get into a better position, the wall of force was blocking line of sight between him and a lot of enemies.
Round 3 - He cast chain lightning.
Round 4 - He cast another wall of force.
Round 5 - He cast hold person.
Round 6 - He cast magic missile.
Something like that anyway. I didn't give an exact round by round account because I can't remember the exact order everything happened in.
