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<blockquote data-quote="BlueBlackRed" data-source="post: 5990953" data-attributes="member: 24239">Kicking out players is never fun.I've had to do it before and have been sick to my stomach each time.One guy was a great person, but his issues began to wear on me and others.We'd love to have his company, but we just couldn't game with him.I sent him a very long e-mail that I type out over a week, listing out everything he did (including nearly breaking my furniture, not flushing, and so on).I did it poorly and I think I wrote it all out more for me to have said everything rather than be kind about it.Be honest with your kicked gamer, but not overly so.Try not to use the word &quot;but&quot;, because it negates anything positive you just said.Give him the bare essential information: &quot;You're presence has ruined the fun for a large portion of our players.&quot;If he pushes for more, tell him, and do not sugarcoat it or give him a way to come back.Make sure he knows he's out with no chance of returning.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BlueBlackRed, post: 5990953, member: 24239"] Kicking out players is never fun. I've had to do it before and have been sick to my stomach each time. One guy was a great person, but his issues began to wear on me and others. We'd love to have his company, but we just couldn't game with him. I sent him a very long e-mail that I type out over a week, listing out everything he did (including nearly breaking my furniture, not flushing, and so on). I did it poorly and I think I wrote it all out more for me to have said everything rather than be kind about it. Be honest with your kicked gamer, but not overly so. Try not to use the word "but", because it negates anything positive you just said. Give him the bare essential information: "You're presence has ruined the fun for a large portion of our players." If he pushes for more, tell him, and do not sugarcoat it or give him a way to come back. Make sure he knows he's out with no chance of returning. [/QUOTE]

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