I Will Post No More Forever

Tom Cashel

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Dear EN World,

Last week I figured I'd simply fade away, but today I've opted instead to transmit this final missive. (It should probably be in the Meta forum, but I'll leave that up to the friendly neighborhood Modsters.) I turned 31 yesterday. I have given up D&D*. I'm moving on.

Don't think this is a sad letter, or an angry letter, or a whinging letter, or even a troll. It's just a simple goodbye, and a thankful shout-out for a couple years of great discussions.

Anyway, I'm off to do a lot of reading and a lot of writing that's been patiently waiting for me to get around to it. You can use this thread to say goodbye, to say good riddance, or to say any darn thing you like.

We Discordians must stick apart.

Fondly,
Thomas Cashel Fitzmaurice O'Boyle O'Flynn

*To answer the inevitable question: I quit D&D because my campaign reached critical mass. There was no escape. My players refused to take a turn DMing. My players refused to take a few days off from the combined live meeting/message board format. My players refused to focus on anything but the rules in the PHB, to the detriment of their own success and my fun. When I failed to check the boards for even two hours or so, my players decided that they would DM themselves online. At the end I was expected to DM 24/7. Cue up your copy of Misery to witness my DMing experience during those last few months.
 

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Ouch.

Take care, Tom. Sorry to see you go, but I'm a strong believer in walking away with as many happy memories as possible rather than running away in loathing. I left gaming for about seven years and thought I'd never play again, so I'm not going to say "good bye forever" but rather "so long for now".

-BG
 

Hey Tom,

If it's true, then I'm sorry to see you go. I went 6 months without gaming once. It was not that fun.

Whatever makes you happy though.

Dave
 




Take care, Tom. Drop by every so often anyways...don't make it a permanent thing. Maybe you just need some time away...perhaps another group will spring up from the ashes like a Phoenix.
 

hhmm... burned out DM... I have seen this before.

Get another group where you can be a player only. I have "saved" two burned out DMs from quitting totally by getting them into our campaigns. Both were great players.
 

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