shilsen said:
I agree. That's why as a player I like to get as much information out-of-game from the DM about the culture my PC comes from and others that the PC is aware of, and in-game I will often ask the DM out-of-character how a certain situation, object, concept, etc. may be viewed in the specific cultural context(s).
Me too. Maybe I'm not undertsanding the terminology here, I assumed "acting" stance was looking at the world and trying to have your character act appropriately as far as he would understand the situation, with occiasonal (as appropriate to the mood of the group and the situation of the characters) speaking as if you were your character, having conversations in character and such. I didnt mean getting into character and not breaking it the entire session and playing out every single transaction at the local general store buying rations and rope.
For example, going shopping is usually telling the DM "I need to buy some things, Im looking for a merchant" and the DM saying "OK, PHB Prices, it takes an hour." But when my bladesinger founght a duel with the Sembian nobleman rapier master who was an archenemy of ours for several months, the 1st person "in character" speech immediately engaged and lasted for several hours as we fought. ("I'm 170 years old. I've borne a sword for 120. How old are you again? Oh, 35, was it?", "Didn't your mother ever teach you to fear elves?")
That being said, I certainly do enjoy "authoring" to an extent, and if I can suggest interesting plot points to the DM to flesh out my character I sure will, but my DM and I are usually in fairly constant discourse of the direction of our games and we tend to work out teh direction of teh game together for teh rest of teh group, but in our specific circle one of the main prides of the DM is coming up with interesting storylines and events to entertain and impress the other players and seeing how the players interact with them, and then analyze the outcome of game sessions and plot out what would be cool to happen next (informally, in friendly "BS" sessions), but then again everyone in our group is a DM for thier own games that the rest of us play in as well.
But while playing, I am firmly "acting" out the role of my character, responding to what happens around him as if I was him, and trying to play out what he would do, limited by his knowledge of the world and his personality.