Thanks for that. Seems each time my group gets together now, there's some comment made about how the 'other side' does something different/better. Or how they are shocked that I allow something in my game.
I don't want to buy into these petty arguments and never attack the other table (just defend my game style), but the comments still make me wonder whether I am doing things that most would disapprove of (or are clearly against the rules).
So it's good to get some feedback from places like this. And it's given me some great ideas for how I can further improve things.
Well, if your players are always complaining about the other table, seems to me you're playing second fiddle.
No offense was intended by this, but if they're not satisfied with how you're running it, perhaps you should determine what could be changed to suit the expectations of both players and yourself, or whether or not your players want to play YOUR game, or just an extension of that other table.
No offense was intended by this, but without knowing how they are presenting things, it could either be a simple comment, or it could be in a more accusatory fashion, which sorta changes things a bit.
Personally, attacking another table seems silly to me. Sure, if what the other table does seems silly to you, I suppose feel free to talk to your own table about it... but going over to the other table and telling them they are silly is just rude and petty. Just seems counterproductive, as it could shift the focus into a 'peeing' contest between tables, if both parties slip into that mindset.
My personal opinion based on my limited experience says that having a magic store that has ALL magic items available would be a massive billboard saying, "ROGUES ROB ME HERE!" since magical items are like the massive diamonds of the D&D world, and at the magic marts, they've an entire store full.
I think the systems mentioned above about finding a person to buy them or just finding a craftsmen to place an order makes more sense. If you're handwaving the general process, just give a brief fluff description that you hired a craftsmage to make the item for the party members, etc...
That's just my opinion, take it with a grain of salt.