Male Gendered Ursidae Hivemind Thread

[Angel Tarragon]

There's a great difference between child-like and child-ish.

Thats what I was trying to say.

 

[DungeonmasterCal]

They don't even speak to me when I go to get him.... except for his younger sister. She's the only one. The only time his mother ever spoke to me was talking about childbirth and the fact that she practically couldn't have anymore after she had him... it was a decade later for the first of the two daughters, 12 years for the second... If she was wanting "sympathy points" from me for that, she was gravely mistaken... The only way she'd get them is to treat him, her only son, with respect.

This is a sad situation, but it's sooooo much like the exact drama my sister's husband is always going on about with his family. I have made a vow to myself to never again involve myself on any level with people who have this sort of drama in their lives. I used to date a girl who's family was a complete HBO mini-series of drama, and I made a promise to myself to never, ever, EV-AR do that again. So when I meet someone now and after getting to know them, as soon as I find out they have any sort of baggage in their background that is ongoing, I distance myself from them. I don't have the time, patience, or altruism enough to put up with it anymore.

 

[Angel Tarragon]

I don't have the time, patience, or altruism enough to put up with it anymore.

We all have our own limits.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

mmmmm....guttery.

The gutter is always nice and warm... and cozy until Crothian comes and farts in it again.

 

[Angel Tarragon]

The gutter is always nice and warm... and cozy until Crothian comes and farts in it again.

At that point it is just reekalicious!

 

[DungeonmasterCal]

The gutter is always nice and warm... and cozy until Crothian comes and farts in it again.

For the record, let me just say, "Ew."

 

[Angel Tarragon]

For the record, let me just say, "Ew."

Or sinew.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

This is a sad situation, but it's sooooo much like the exact drama my sister's husband is always going on about with his family. I have made a vow to myself to never again involve myself on any level with people who have this sort of drama in their lives. I used to date a girl who's family was a complete HBO mini-series of drama, and I made a promise to myself to never, ever, EV-AR do that again. So when I meet someone now and after getting to know them, as soon as I find out they have any sort of baggage in their background that is ongoing, I distance myself from them. I don't have the time, patience, or altruism enough to put up with it anymore.

I just don't deal with them at all. If they don't say anything, I sure as heck don't. I just get him and his stuff and leave. Same when I drop him off... He was hoping to get his disability to come through so he can afford to leave them behind in the cow manure they belong and get back on with his life. I just thank God that he didn't turn out like the rest of them... And I'm sure my aunt feels the same way. Heck, I wouldn't even eat his mother's cooking the night I stayed there before the con in Charlotte I gave him a ride to. We went meandering through Monroe and the edge of Charlotte that Thursday afternoon after cashing his check... the bank in Monroe=bunch of jackasses. They wouldn't do the cash check thru my account, even with BOTH of us standing there in front of them! He just wanted to get away for a few hours that day.... even though he was gonna be away from there Friday, Saturday and most of Sunday.... And I got down there to find out that they had a 'major bitch-fit' about me staying there.... wondering where he was gonna "sleep" and all (he's the insomniac and usually stays up all night... he ended up wandering around town at 2AM....). They had a bitch-fit when I brought him up for Star Wars....

 

[DungeonmasterCal]

Or sinew.

mmmm...sinew.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

For the record, let me just say, "Ew."

Yeah. Hence why we try to ban Crothian from our gutter. He can have his own gutter to fart in all he wants to.