I hear you. It's been a waste of my valuable and limited gaming time to sit there and try to set up tiles..plus the loss of quality and creativeness on the map.
I only use a couple of the tiles off the cuff, otherwise simple 3D models are FAR SUPERIOR to flat, 2D tiles on the battlemat IMHO.
A couple stones, railroad model trees, and fold-up doors look a LOT better than the flat, lifeless tiles. The flat tiles appear superior only for flat artwork (such as the magic circles, etc.)
jh
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