el-remmen
Moderator Emeritus
I have to agree with Wulf.  The DM can set the "gritty tone", but it is up to the players to maintain it - to have their characters react apporpriatey to threats, horrific scenes and/or an impending sense of doom. 
Personally, that is one of the ways I grade RP when I give out XP - how "believably" the PCs reacted to the situations they find themselves in.
				
			Personally, that is one of the ways I grade RP when I give out XP - how "believably" the PCs reacted to the situations they find themselves in.