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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Shadoe's Lady" data-source="post: 990398" data-attributes="member: 6490">Here's the short version.  The guy is not fitting in with the group.  He's creeping a lot of us out and making inappropriate remarks to (and in front of) our youngest member.  He has a new girlfriend who he brings over (sometimes on game night, sometimes on occasions when we just hang out together) and she is doing the same.  His attendance is erratic because he wants to spend time with her.  It seems like for a while we've been complaining to each other about him behind his back.  I decided this needed to stop and took it upon myself to ask everyone if we wanted him gone or what.  We decided we want him gone.  We sent him an email.  Unfortunately, we tried to be subtle about it, saying we understood he wanted to spend time with his girlfriend and we would understand if he didn't game this campaign and to give us a call when things between them got settled.He didn't take the hint.  He emailed us back saying not to worry, he'd be back Saturday ready to game.So now what do we do?Our main issue, and the reason I don't think his staying is a possibility, is for the peace of mind of our youngest member.  I don't know if anyone else in the group has a problem saying "look, man, you're creeping us out", but I would rather not get into the reasons why with him.  If you're thinking the GM should do it, that's not an option either since the current GM is our youngest member.</blockquote>

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