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<blockquote data-quote="Shadoe's Lady" data-source="post: 991291" data-attributes="member: 6490"><p>I'm not comfortable giving out her actual age. Let me just put it this way-she's jail bait and he's at least 10 years older than she is. So, as for them needing to get together: no, and ewww.</p><p></p><p>It's not that she's the only one who's uncomfortable. She's just the only one he's making comments directly to. </p><p></p><p>Is she too young to hang with us? If you only looked at her chronological age, then you would think so, but she's also exceptionally intelligent and a college graduate. She's spent her whole life hanging out with older people. And, frankly, we like her better and she was there first.</p><p></p><p>I guess what it comes down to is we're trying to protect her. I don't think that's wrong. And even if we were to try to do that by having her not game with us instead of him, it wouldn't work since one of the 2 gaming locations is her house. Why should she be, in effect, punished (by being deprived of a hobby she likes) for something someone else is doing.</p><p></p><p>Maybe in getting rid of him we'd be making it someone else's problem, but should we try to rehabilitate him at the expense of our enjoyment of the game? Maybe we're way off on what's appropriate and inappropriate and he'll find another group that agrees more with the way he sees things.</p><p></p><p>And thanks for all the feedback. It helps to bounce these ideas around and see what works and what doesn't. Even if I don't end up taking your advice, it's still appreciated and might even come in handy for someone else down the line.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shadoe's Lady, post: 991291, member: 6490"] I'm not comfortable giving out her actual age. Let me just put it this way-she's jail bait and he's at least 10 years older than she is. So, as for them needing to get together: no, and ewww. It's not that she's the only one who's uncomfortable. She's just the only one he's making comments directly to. Is she too young to hang with us? If you only looked at her chronological age, then you would think so, but she's also exceptionally intelligent and a college graduate. She's spent her whole life hanging out with older people. And, frankly, we like her better and she was there first. I guess what it comes down to is we're trying to protect her. I don't think that's wrong. And even if we were to try to do that by having her not game with us instead of him, it wouldn't work since one of the 2 gaming locations is her house. Why should she be, in effect, punished (by being deprived of a hobby she likes) for something someone else is doing. Maybe in getting rid of him we'd be making it someone else's problem, but should we try to rehabilitate him at the expense of our enjoyment of the game? Maybe we're way off on what's appropriate and inappropriate and he'll find another group that agrees more with the way he sees things. And thanks for all the feedback. It helps to bounce these ideas around and see what works and what doesn't. Even if I don't end up taking your advice, it's still appreciated and might even come in handy for someone else down the line. [/QUOTE]
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