If you’re not sure, let the dice decide and make an oracle roll.
There are hundreds of ways to resolve this.
My favorite is the d6 yes, and. 6 yes, and. 5 yes. 4 yes, but. 3 no, but. 2 no. 1 no, and.
If circumstances favor yes or no, roll two and keep one. Like dis/advantage in 5E.