Hmm...a good ol' ghost sound with Elan pretending to be the will of Banjo would probably settle everything. Too bad he's not smart enough for that and his tactical aide isn't coming. ^_^
What's with this whole "why didn't she retreat?" "paladin." stuff? There's nothing un-paladin-y about a strategic fallback. The old 3.0 splat book Defenders of the Faith even advised Paladins should know when it's best to live to fight (evil) another day, and that there's nothing glorious about throwing your life away for nothing. It and the broken +3 market price haste effect for armor were the best parts of the book!