Blackwarder
Adventurer
I don't know the point you are trying to make Warder, mine is that I don't want to have to rely on anything electronic be it online sources, pdfs, app based programs, e-character sheets or whatever. It does not improve my game. It has the opposite effect. I haven't had any experience with iPads or tablets at my games so far but I have had to ban laptops even though we used them for years without any real incident. It adds a barrier between players, and when the game is about interaction having everyone's nose behind a screen is the exact wrong thing I want to see at a gaming table.
Now, I'm not opposed to having these resources OUT of game. I'm sure there are CharOps boards that can help, or certainly coming here and talking about DnD/looking for suggestions, but these are things that detract IN game. For this simple reason I want my rule book to be a BOOK not a file on a server. This includes the SRD.
First of all, in the end it's a matter of tast, just so that we be clear, I don't want to force anyone to play in a way they don't want to.
Having said that, I too banned laptops from our games, the only one who was allowed one was the DM who all ready had a DM screen to hide behind so adding a laptop screen have changed much. I agree that having laptop on the table make some sort of a barrier between the players and between the players and the DM but having a tablet device is exactly the other way around, it's exactly like having a paper character sheet (or a rule book) only without slaughtering a bunch of innocent trees every time I change a power or a feat.
In our group we currently got two iPads, two dead tree character sheets, dead tree advanture and occasionally an iPhone around the table, one of the iPads also acts as an initiative tracker and if we have some rules questions we use one of them to find the answer quickly, it works for us.
Warder