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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Thomas Shey" data-source="post: 9762694" data-attributes="member: 7026617">An entirely defensible argument.  But not the only place people keep telling themselves if they just try again...I just do have to point out there can be a lot of practical constraints for a lot of people (transportation, time frames) that can make them very slow about doing that sort of thing.  I would like to fill out my alternate Saturday (the one that used to be taken up by the game I finally pulled  the plug on), but in practice I'd probably have to familiarize myself with another VTT if I wanted to play (the one I normally use is uncommon enough finding a game I actually wanted to bother with on the right Saturday in the right time zone is, let's say, non-trivial) and I'm old and prone to intertia.Often for people, the great sad truth is that its easier to put up with things and gripe about it online than do the heavy lifting to solve the problem (or find out after you try you still haven't).The only point I was making is that often this stuff isn't "I'm deliberately trying to wreck the game because I don't like it" its "I'm frustrated and its leaking out, and I don't have what seems like any easy outs."  Assuming deliberate sabotage is a bit of a reach as a default.</blockquote>