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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Autumnal" data-source="post: 9773119" data-attributes="member: 6671663">I have a pair of related reactions.1. It’s fine to have bright red lines that tell you can expect not to have a good time if you go further. But then you should STOP, disengage, and go out your attention onto something else. Continuing may be necessary for, say, work, or academic analysis, or crucial personal importance. But the overwhelming majority of the time it isn’t and you’re just setting yourself up for unhappiness and fighting.2. Actively looking for green lines that suggest you’re likely to have fun with at least part of something and seeking them out is very healthy and productive. More people should do it.</blockquote>