NOW LIVE! Today's the day you meet your new best friend. You don’t have to leave Wolfy behind... In 'Pets & Sidekicks' your companions level up with you!

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Message: <blockquote data-quote="PandoraNight" data-source="post: 2558600" data-attributes="member: 48491">Ok, i'm not usually really good at posting but i think I shall make an attempt at this.I have contemplated leaving the site a few times and not because people I don't know ignore a dying person.  It's happened a few times that people I play with have completely ignored that something was wrong.  I then realise however that maybe they are busy and that sometimes you just aren't the most important person in the world.I've been playing at this site for many years (oh gods going on eight) and I admit that when i started I was very much a newbie, but I had good friends to help me through.  What if some of the new guys don't have any of those friends and that attention they are seaking will help them on the site?  I try as much as I possibly can to help those that come to me.  Talk to them OOC give them hints.  Usually it helps and some times they just refuse and continue to act out.I put very few people on ignore.  I don't believe in ignoring "newbies" unless they are posing a problem like mass messaging or harrassment.  All I have to remember is I was once like them and reguardless if people like me now or not, i know how to play and some day they will get into their own groove onsite and be someone we all want to play with.Now for the playing my character.  i'm not really sure where I stand on this point to tell you the truth.  Normally I play fairly goodie chars.  Pan for the longest time was my one exception.  She can be crass and violent and will hurt people who cross her.  But she's not out of the ordinary, people seem to accept that that is who she is.  However, I turned one of my goodie characters (for most who don't know willa turned into aseelah) (and for thsoe who don't know willa....well ask a vet and they'll tell you).  It was the worst thing i've ever done.  I had to fight to get people to play with her.  She was a woman but heaven forbid if she was stronger then any man in that place.  No one (minus one person *thank you draco*) would give into her.  Even after ooc explanations as to what woul dhappen, no one wanted to...acting snertish and flat out made her look like an idiot.So you see, i've had an experience on both sides of the plate.  there are quite a few people who do not like the way I play but i've come to a point where i've decided that I have friends that I play with who like to play with me and there are constantly new people who want to learn and be accepted.  so to those who don't like how I or others play, they need to keep their opinions to them selves.well that's about it for my rant....it got longer then I thought and probably really makes no sense so you'll have to forgive (my brain is not functioning too well today so...bleh)*signing off*Bri (Pandora, Willa, Samantha)</blockquote>

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