Babette looks worriedly from the grapple to the melee and back until her eyes flash with decisiveness.
"Let it go, you little vermin," she orders as she reaches into the grapple.
ooc: Apologies but this may get complicated. Babette will attempt to disarm Drezel of the wand.
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First things first, link to
SRD Special Attacks.
Currently all she is holding is her silver dagger. Is she can do this with out penalty, one-handed, she'll hang onto the dagger. Otherwise, she'll drop it. I want the wand to end up in her hand, not on the ground.
First off, Drezel gets an AoO. However, being grappled, and possibly pinned, I'm not sure if he's able to.
SRD said:
You can make an attack with an unarmed strike, natural weapon, or light weapon against another character you are grappling. You take a -4 penalty on such attacks.
The SRD makes mention of being able to attack opponents you are grappling, but makes no mention of attacking opponents outside of the grapple. Not sure how you want to rule that.
If I get past the AoO, we have an opposed attack roll. I have a -4 penalty for using a light weapon and a +4 for being one size larger. Drezel should have a penalty of -4 as the targeted item isn't a melee weapon. I don't know if you think adjustments for higher ground/prone would apply here.
So, after all of that, here's my roll:
1d20+1=7
Well, crap!

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