mattcolville
Adventurer
Bad Paper said:That is called speak with dead.
Why not just try the raise? Give the player the option to say yes. I said yes when the bad guys raised my wizard, and ultimately, uhh, well, I don't play that wizard anymore.
At any rate, just try it by the book. Raises are not cheap, and many players would jump at the chance.
The player has made it clear he doesn't want to come back. That's what prompted this line of reasoning.