Swallowed by giant frog I think is objectively funny. I would not be upset at all. I think the fact that the situation ended with her summoning a horse and killing the toad would be great moment in most campaigns.
I have gotten a bit upset/sad when a long-term character of mine - or another player's character - gets killed. I'm also not crazy about a character getting permanently, unilaterally altered in some way without a conversation about it. I don't like it when a DM tells me how my character behaves or feels about something. And I don't like any adventure where I am feeling like "okay, what button do I need to press to make the plot advance."
A few rounds of abject humiliation does not bother me and is kind of inevitably going to happen to most characters at some point.
I have gotten a bit upset/sad when a long-term character of mine - or another player's character - gets killed. I'm also not crazy about a character getting permanently, unilaterally altered in some way without a conversation about it. I don't like it when a DM tells me how my character behaves or feels about something. And I don't like any adventure where I am feeling like "okay, what button do I need to press to make the plot advance."
A few rounds of abject humiliation does not bother me and is kind of inevitably going to happen to most characters at some point.

