jgsugden
Legend
You dropped a grenade and walked away ... and were you surprised to find a crater when you returned?Wow, fast moving thread -- 32 pages in less than six days! I'm just getting caught up with ample doses of skimming, and hope to participate more fully. Thanks to everyone for all the thoughtful responses. I just wanted to address this for now:..

My take on this entire thread: D&D is a role playing game. Characters play a role in a story. Approximately -8.7% of games are run using the rules as written and intended, so in the end, I don't think anyone can say what is and is not D&D - but I do have this to say on the topic:
D&D is likely a mistake for you if you're not role playing a character. If you're just going from combat to combat without trying to inhabit a personality for your character, you're just playing an overly complex and inefficient strategy game. The ambiguity created to facilitate actual role playing results in a strategy game that ispoorly balanced, needlessly fiddly, and likely less exciting than a Gloohaven, a Descent, or one of the many other strategy/tactics miniatures games designed to be focused down to scenarios rather than a full story.