Goblyns Hoard
First Post
Fair enough - then consider this one:
D&D is a group game, for the enjoyment of all... that includes the DM.
Make it clear to them that their approach is affecting/ruining (your choice of word here obviously) your enjoyment of the game. Ask them to change their methods to help improve your fun. If they refuse you have options.
Number 1 - Stop DMing and find another set of players (always a bit harsh I know but if you're not enjoying the game then you may need to consider it
Number 2 - Don't give them a choice in resting - by having them unable to escape the encounters. Even in the city that's an option, hit them with gangs of thieves when they go to sleep, a vampire attack in the middle of the night, whatever you want. If they complain just tell them that you were trying to enjoy the game too.
Ultimately if your not having fun tell your players. If they won't change then you need to - change game, change style, change who's controlling how things happen... anything to make sure they understand that your enjoyment is important too.
Obviously the extent that you want to take that change is up to you and your relationship with your players (are they good friends or just fellow gamers extracting the urine). So don't think I'm trying to wreck your relationship with what might be your best friends
D&D is a group game, for the enjoyment of all... that includes the DM.
Make it clear to them that their approach is affecting/ruining (your choice of word here obviously) your enjoyment of the game. Ask them to change their methods to help improve your fun. If they refuse you have options.
Number 1 - Stop DMing and find another set of players (always a bit harsh I know but if you're not enjoying the game then you may need to consider it
Number 2 - Don't give them a choice in resting - by having them unable to escape the encounters. Even in the city that's an option, hit them with gangs of thieves when they go to sleep, a vampire attack in the middle of the night, whatever you want. If they complain just tell them that you were trying to enjoy the game too.
Ultimately if your not having fun tell your players. If they won't change then you need to - change game, change style, change who's controlling how things happen... anything to make sure they understand that your enjoyment is important too.
Obviously the extent that you want to take that change is up to you and your relationship with your players (are they good friends or just fellow gamers extracting the urine). So don't think I'm trying to wreck your relationship with what might be your best friends
