reveal said:
It's easy, for me at least, because I took an oath to put the well-being of my country ahead of my family and myself. I was proud to serve and proud of job I did for my country. Yes, if my family were in possible trouble, I would be very worried and the situation would have become more stressful. But I still had a job to do. I still swore an oath that I protect my country. If I hadn't, if I had gone back against everything I believed true and good, I couldn't have lived with myself.
Agree 100%. There is an immutable (IMO) social compact between those who take an oath (be they soldiers, police officers, firefighters or other specialties cut of similar cloth) and those they have sworn to protect, serve and defend. Just as their are few things more noble (IMO) than placing others interest, safety and well-being ahead of your own - even to the point of sacrificing your own life in that service, there are few things more ignoble than than breaking that compact, regardless of the reason.
Organizations such as police, military, firefighters and other first-responders are built on the foundation of selfless service, shared sacrifice and teamwork. If a portion of that interdependent team decides to "take their ball and go home" - they endanger not only those they purport to serve, they also endanger their fellow oath-takers, whose task(s) become that much more difficult, dangerous and even deadly.
As an adherent to such an oath in the past, I understand that it isn't very fashionable in some circles today to place selfless service to others above one's own desires and self-interest...but without men and women who are willing to do so, society would quickly cease to function. In ancient times (and much of fantasy literature, for that matter), few were despised more than Oathbreakers (LOTR "Paths of the Dead", anyone?)...
Are there extenuating circumstances for these NO police officers? Perhaps. Low pay, rampant crime, leadership rife with corruption and nepotism, poor equipment, poor training, poor planning and a sense of overwhelming helplessness in the face of Mother Nature's fury...but that doesn't excuse deserting in the face of crisis.
My 2 coppers...
~ OO