All right, being in the Military I'm a firm believer in rumor control so I'll just give everyone the story:
I have always found other women beautiful and sensual. My chosen career however left no room to ever really explore that. Over the years I have "suppressed" those thoughts. A feew weeks ago there was a lot of joking in here between several hivers and that got me thinking again. In an odd concidence I was hit on by a woman in a bar a short time after that. I went out with her. Our second date was a little too close to the base I guess and someone in my squadron saw us kissing. (Again a lapse in judgement on my part) Charges have been filed against me and Im trying to save my career. I am not a lesbian. I love men but something about women calls to me and I finally decided to answer it. I am still seeing Karen and have decided not to lie about what I did and who I'm seeing. I think I can save my job and career but we will see in time.
Anyway, there it is in a nutshell. I dont mind answering questions or discussing it but I wanted to clear things up and put them in the open.