Yup, as a vet myself I do know what reveille is. I haven't played reveille (don't play the trumpet) but I have done flag duty, particularly earlier in my Army years as a grunt. Even now, when I am near a base at 5pm and hear a canon boom out the end of the duty day, I still have to remind myself that I don't
have to pull over, get out of the car, and either salute or put my hand over my heart. As a civilian, these things are totally voluntary. When you're active duty or the spouse of someone active duty, they're mandatory.

At least on any base I ever lived on.
I'm still praying for you for peace, strength, and focus, by the way.