Eh, to each his own. That's one of the reasons I didn't like Hero so much (it's a new movie, worth seeing if you like that kind of plot). I mean, besides the fact (as my brother said) that "it leads up to the plot for the entire movie and never actually gets there."
I guess I'm just spoiled. You can have that kind of plot and make it work, but it's very difficult. There's a french movie, the title of which translates into "The Rules of the Game," that is arguably one of the best ten movies in history. It focuses on many of those aspects.
And then, of course, you have Romeo and Juliet, Hamlet, A Midsummer Night's Dream...
Take your pick.