hawkeyefan
Legend
Completed a second session last night. I'm surprised how automatically I've switched into my old 2E playstyle. I would describe that style as "letting other people go first". Here's an example:
I let the Rogue, Bard, and Barbarian go first. They open doors, chests, go into rooms first, take the lead in searching, ect. When the bad stuff happens, it happens to them first. I then go help deal with the bad stuff when it happens. It's just taking the pose of "backing people up", hanging back ready to help out. This was exactly how I played 2E when we did exploration heavy games, and though it's been a long time since I've played 2E(I've run a few campaigns more recently), it still surprised me how quickly I slipped back into that mindset.
Mostly we've been exploring rooms in some haunted house. I'd say 80% of those rooms were empty. Not my favorite aspect of D&D by a long shot. Being level 1(just got level 2) there really isn't much to do for my paladin beyond "I swing a sword". I will say that playing carefully both in and out of combat has meant I have yet to take any damage.
Sounds like the game is progressing a bit slow. Hopefully it picks up for you a bit.
I will say it's a bit odd to hear you letting others take all the risks and then you swoop in only when needed. Nothing wrong with that approach in and of itself...but it seems a bit contrary to the typical role a paladin plays in a party. It's first level, so a lot of the paladin's cool abilities aren't there yet, but still, I'd kind of expect a paladin to be more of a front line member of the party.
Perhaps slipping into the older method you used to play the game is an obstacle to your enjoyment of the game?