For a group, I search for topics
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That button on the bottom left, then type into the field, and if it's public join it.
For people, message people you end up in a conversation with.
Game servers will often have an LFG channel or series of channels, which is where you find people to game with. Here I've collapsed the channel list to just show the part I'm talking about:
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There's a busy ENWorld Discord... but lately random people have been using it to send me private messages even though neither they nor I have ever posted to that discord... so I've left the ENWorld discord for now
(That actually suprised me that I'd never posted in it. I thought I used to, but I couldn't find my name even in old posts. I'm in way too many servers so I guess I just joined it ages ago then forgot.)
The top two channels on my list there are a game I'm in and a game I GM (which is a sever I also used to use for MMO groups).
