Manbearcat
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I'm not sure if I care as much about stated preference as revealed preference-- I think everyone likes to see themselves as above it in a way that makes it less helpful when examining the space in a meaningful way, but I also don't know that I really have an impression of where you personally fall, so if you're looking to lock horns on that as some specific point of etiquette or identity, I don't think I can really help you.
Definitely not interested in locking horns.
I rarely ever engage in meta-conversations. I find them tedious and worse than useless (because they distract from actual analysis of play and related). But here I just wanted to register the disagreement with the framing that I saw in your posts. The first one which I replied to looked to me to be putting the onus on folks to "walk their System Matters talk" (which doesn't fold in the dynamics that my reply lamented). The second one looked to be a kind of "adherents of a movement" are at fault and "everyone is a culture warrior engaged in equal culture war dysfunction" equivalency.
You and I don't engage with each other a whole lot, but I've generally enjoyed your contributions to the threads I've been in. So I figured I'd just try to explain how I very much disagree with that framing of things so, if we engage in the future (in this thread or elsewhere), you at least know where I'm coming from with respect to that framing.
All good. That's all I've got on the subject. If you reply, I'll just hit you with an xp to let you know I read it.