Rev, so you know, for me it basically comes down to the Shaun test (named after my niece's mom's boyfriend):
Shaun doesn't work since he would rather lay about my neice's mom's appartment and collect her welfare while he spends his own unemployment checks at the Indian Casino that is 2 1/2 hours away. The only time he moved out of her appartment was because the gov. was about to deny my neice's mom of her welfare since they was about to hit the "common law marriage" mark. He waited six months, then moved back in after California decided that she was not living with him. Two years later, he is still living at her apartment and doing the same thing.
I doubt you are like Shaun. Meaning, so you don't have to worry about my being disappointed by your situation.