Un-invitation

[Umbran]

For clarification, Bob's spouse does not play D&D. Though she is friendly with my wife.

That's what I thought, but it wasn't entirely clear. You are still somewhat open for the wife-to-wife interaction making it clear to Bob that he's not included in the game. I don't figure this changes what you do, but it means you should be ready for the conversation, just in case.

 

[Edward Borenstein]

I don't think informing him is necessary.

 

[ccs]

For clarification, Bob's spouse does not play D&D. Though she is friendly with my wife.

So what're the odds of your wife telling Bob's wife all about the game that he's not invited to play? 0.0% I would hope....

Just say nothing & let Bob assume that the game he left is ticking along.

 

[cmad1977]

Everyone’s right. Don’t bother writing him an email.

But...
no ones gonna ask about the imaginary dress??!?


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[kalil]

Everyone’s right. Don’t bother writing him an email.

But...
no ones gonna ask about the imaginary dress??!?


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I just assumed it was imaginary

 

[Blue]

But...
no ones gonna ask about the imaginary dress??!?

It was white and gold, while Bob insisted it was blue and black.

 

[MarkB]

I just assumed it was imaginary

Well, if one's dress turned out to be imaginary, it's easy to see how that could cause some awkward social issues.

 

[Kobold Boots]

Anyone else notice that this got necro'd from 3/2016? Let it die.

 

[Sunseeker]

Everyone’s right. Don’t bother writing him an email.

But...
no ones gonna ask about the imaginary dress??!?


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Actually, that was my first question.

Obviously the thread has been necroed and likely the situation long since resolved but I'm still curious:
What's the deal with the dress?
What did Bob actually do that broke the camel's back?

Also I mean, it's sort of important to consider how much time has passed since Game A ended and Game B began.
Like, I met up with a friend of mine I gamed with a couple years back. I considered inviting him to my current game...until I heard from those playing with him that the almost universal consensus was that he was a massive jerk now. Some people change for the worse, some the better.