So the above is you. And it's one of the first instances in this thread of someone dividing the conversation into 'sides' after a very early mention by Defcon 1 and then later by Frogreaver.
Is this you as well?
One might assume that it's a simple mistake on your part to have missed the regular repeat of your use of the word 'side' by maxperson, oofta, frogreaver and mamba - all on the same 'side' - and to have accidentally picked up on a rare repeat of your terminology by 'the other side'.
Since that's the case you're not in any position to try and play tone police or lecture others on 'actually wanting a conversation'.
Given your very early use of the tactic of 'turning everything into sides' in this thread, it's an exercise for the reader as to the level of hypocrisy involved. They can each make their own judgement as to the credibilty of your sudden claims to the moral high ground.