...it's just an expression that means 'messed up'.
I know. The point still stands.
When we look at something and say, "that's messed up!" it is in comparison to an implicit notion of what the acceptable norm is.
But, before play begins, gaming tables don't have much of an implicit notion - that's why the Session Zero is such a recommended approach to starting a game, to set that table's notions.
Not being some particular person's cup of tea should not qualify as, "messed up".
 
				 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
		
 
 
		 I don't know why you are implying that I don't trust the people that I play with. I'm saying that many past DMs in past games in which I have partaken have made similar promises that they have failed to deliever.
 I don't know why you are implying that I don't trust the people that I play with. I'm saying that many past DMs in past games in which I have partaken have made similar promises that they have failed to deliever. 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		