You know what? Forget it. I could respond to every point you made, but why bother?
Almost everyone who has made the complaint has admitted it's hard to put into words. That's not good enough. "Put it into specific words!" you say. So we try. It's not precise, it's just examples, but those are immediately attacked as "No its not! That's not like a video game at all!" or "So what? It's a great rule!".
I'm not saying don't enjoy it. I've even said 4E is probably a great game, if you want what 4E offers. But don't tell me my opinion - my personal feeling on the issue - is /wrong/ just because you disagree. I can't help it, 4E feels videogamey to me. No amount of you shooting down any example I can come up with is going to change that.
This thread was about explanations and examples of what we meant. I thought, maybe, some people were genuinely confused and wanted an answer. We tried to come up with some. Lets leave it at that, ok? I didn't want this to turn into "4E rules, you're wrong for feeling the way you do!".