When I see a 4e fan posting "Wizards in 3e were overpowered!", I feel it has about the same objective truth as "4e plays like a videogame."
In other words, there's reasons for this perception, but the perception is not inherently true.
Everything is not just a matter of opinion.
On the one hand, frankly if we're ever going to accept that any game system has any impact that is in any way other than subjective, we should be willing to recognise things like the caster/non-caster power split in 3e. But fine, let's just leave that aside, it's all subjective, DMs can warp the system so that every wizard is an insomiac and every fighter has an amulet of mind blank, whatever.
BUT that doesn't change the fact that people have been misrepresenting the nature of the 4e system ever since it came out, not in subjective terms, not in terms of extrapolated game style, but in terms of making claims that are directly contrary to the actual facts of what is included in the books.
There are literally hundereds if not thousands of posts in these threads, made by people who were critical of 4e and yet, despite clearly having never read the books, still felt they had the right to make not subjective claims, but factual allegations about what the books contained.
We all know what i'm talking about. 4e doesn't support skill usage (even though it has an entire system for using skills, a system with no equivalent in 3e). 4e doesn't have any fluff for monsters, even though every monster entry has paragraphs of fluff under the knowelge check system. 4e doesn't have utility spells, even though there's an entire system set aside specifically for utility spells. And the list goes on.
Sometimes it seems like there isn't a feature 4e spends a chapter on, that 4e-haters haven't criticised it for lacking.
And no, it's not a matter of opinion, it is a mater of fact. It's a matter of page-count, in fact. That's how bad it is. That is the degree to which people have been misrepresenting this issue.
And no, it's not valid to say that since there is sometimes a real issue lurking there, six layers deep, that these criticisms are valid. Skill challenges and rituals could certainly be better, but that doesn't make it ok for people to
pretend that they don't exist, and then have their dishonesty or ignorance championed as a virtue or coddled as if it's something everyone in the debate is doing.
And these claims are often made by people who claim that these utterly false features were a deliberate design decision by the people who wrote the books, and that this is proof of their design philosophy. Myth upon myth, or to be frank, lie upon lie. And then somebody corrects them, and they say "well that's my subjective opinion", and the entire absurd merry-go-round goes around for another turn. And all of this damages the comunity's ability to come to grips with the real issues.
And let me just repeat: I
don't care if you want to wrap this all in a blanked of subjective sophistry, and preted this is all ok. It's not ok, it's extarordinarily damaging to both the discussion, and the comunity.
I know that people who hate 4e crow about the collapse of it's third party market as a victory, but you can't blame the GSL for that whole mess- at some point you have to recognise that the endless negativity, and misrepresentation of 4e has had a real, and entirely undeserved impact there. Yes, there were issues with the GSL, no, that did not justify the endless frenzy of pure BS that was hurled around about both the game, and the GSL. Do not tell me that there were not 4e haters, sitting on GSL threads, deliberatly making all sorts of allegations about how the GSL would be the death of any company that touched it, because there were.
And the real issues of how 4e effects people trying to do 3pp for it? Completly obscured by this garbage! I remember one case on this forum, when somebody mentioned a really good point about the difficulties of doing 3pp for 4e (iirc relating to the character builder), and a mod shut the discussion down because it was touching on the GSL or something and the frenzy over it had caused the mods to take action. Since then people have managed to talk about real issues somtimes, but they still don't get to talk about the 500 pound gorilla in the room- the edition wars themselves, and how they've damaged 4e's 3pp market.
The comunity has also been damaged. I have lost count of the number of people i've seen saying that they'd really like to play 4e, but they get flack of even mentioning it in their not so friendly LGS, and on the forums they hang out on. The people dishing out that abuse, and the false claims they make about the system, and their belief that their attitude is reasonable, all flow directly from this absurd debate. And no, there is not a huge army of retrocloners or pathfinder society people out there, making up the difference. The result is a net loss for the comunity, and further damage to the always tenuous process of forming networks of gamers in local areas.
By pandering to the extended temper tantrum that is the hostility to 4e, people on threads like this are only perpetuating this absurd process, and moving people away from a more rational discussion and better outcomes for the comunity and the industry.
It is a miracle that anyone manages to get anything fruitful out of a discussion like this, but that occurs despite the style of the debate, not because of it. There's nothing constructive about pretending that everything is just a matter of opinion, or that the two sides of this debate (as if there even were two sides) are equivalent, or that this process is constructive and sound when it's really just people slinging mud at something they don't like.
Here's the real truth about the edition wars: People threw a huge tantrum when a new edition came out, and their hostility, ignorance, overt dishonesty, and petulance was encouraged and placed upon a pedestal, when it should be recognised as immature, self-indulgent, and destructive.