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Message: <blockquote data-quote="jdavis" data-source="post: 671973" data-attributes="member: 8704">I missed the "true" in there. I took it as a opinion piece. I didn't mean to question your lack of a want to reply just the tone used. If I had took it to be stated as actual fact instead of a theoretical statemet of belief then I would of found the tone used called for, I just didn't see it that way. As a statement of how things work it is just not true as a statement of philosophy it's ok.Here I'll give a example of how this fails for me. I don't like one of my Grandmothers (my Mom's mother), ok don't like isn't near bad enough, I hate the woman's guts and will go to her funeral and smile at the corpse. She is a white trash piece of crap who doesn't know when to keep her nose out of other people's buisness and who has done several things to make me believe she is a pox on all of humanity, I won't get into any specifics. I don't hate myself for hating her, I am not taking my bad feelings about myself out on her, I don't feel that it is in any way my fault, it just isn't. I tried to be nice to the woman and she said things that should never be said (at Christmas, in front of my young children about their mother, once again no specifics but feel free to fill in the blanks, they can't be as bad as what did happen) That was just one of many different things that happened. The only thing I ever felt guilty or mad about was going to see her, so now I don't (my Mother's doctor told my mother to not see her anymore due to the affect interacting with her had on her blood pressure.). There was absolutely no way you can find to put any of the anger in me, you can in no way say I was projecting my own feelings in the case, she is just a , well I can't say that here. My was of dealing with this wasn't to ignore her or to think I was hurting myself by getting upset, the woman worked hard to get under your skin, you could not help yourself but get angry. I just stopped going around and I let it be known to the family in general that I was done with her for the rest of our lives. I don't get mad anymore I don't worry about it anymore I just stay away. Yes the anger was hurting me but it wasn't my fault, she initiated it she continued it and she is still trying to get crap going (heck I don't even know why). The only fault that was mine was being around her to start with.</blockquote>

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