Uh well
Hmm. Voted other. Since I cannot decide. It's all.
About dating through gaming... no idea. Never had a longterm relationship with a gaming girl but some friends of mine always say: If you want sex, go to a LARP.
So I suppose it's possible but gaming is just another way to make social contacts. I mean, guys with problems wo meet girls will have the same problems when meeting a gaming girl.
Why do I roleplay? I don't. I play myself. Over and over again. I test my limits and emotions.
I have often heard that guys who always play themselves are real bad and boring roleplayers. I disagree. The most wonderful gamers I ever met all said they play themselves. It's just that they play themselves what they would be if they would have grown up or been treated like the NPC they roleplay.
I like to be boss. But I don't push guys around, I discuss with them why things happen. I like to think about what actions produce what results.
About that creativity problem... Right. Many DMs spent years of time working on homemade worlds and getting nothing but grumbling players from it. What would they have achieved if they had done something else? I am not sure.
I think roleplaying is all about getting accustomed to yourself. In one way or the other. You learn to express yourself. You learn about how others react to your actions. You learn how others think. That's what I like.