Maybe I haven't sufficiently clarified what my objection here is. It's not that there are sexual aspects to the setting (for sufficiently mature audiences), but that little things like this come across as Ed's way of using authorial authority to insert himself in conjured sexual boasts via uber-GMPC, and I find it extremely cheesy in a "nobody over 15 should be doing this" way. Not only does Ed find it convenient and amusing to introduce us to Elminster from poolside with his nubile drow babe, but he's friends with all the hawt sorceresses of the realm. Oh yeah, and he had a fling with the goddess of magic.
See, I still have a concern about that. You're making the following assumptions.
- Elminster is a direct wish-fullfilment persona for Ed Greenwood.
- The character of Elmister gives you psychological insight into the mind of Mr Greenwood.
- A lot of commentary seems to come from the over-use of Elminster. Do people look at Volo the same way? I see a lot of people making comments based on minor appearances of the character but not based on some of the more interesting novels.
- It seems people are judging this from the stereotypical "nerd" view that all DMs and Players are just engaing in power-fantasies and don't get laid in real life. I don't think we'd be judging Ed Greenwood as much if he wasn't writing for games, as I've seen more pruient content in a Piers Anthony novel than I ever saw in any of Ed's fiction.