Why must a loving soul be so alone...

[Angel Tarragon]

I have had faith for so long that I'd find that special someone by putting my life in the hands in the one from up above...

<sigh> I'm tired of waiting. I know I am blessed for having a family that really cares about me, but it isn't enough., I have too much love to give to go through my life alone. I've tried multiple internet 'dating' sites and never even got a nibble.

I'm tired of being alone. I had to get this off my chest, I'm just so sick of being alone in a world of millions.

 

[Scotley]

Don't give up hope. I didn't get married until I was in my 30's. My personal experience has been that it was only when I stopped looking that I found relationships. Must be some sort of cosmic nihlism at work. The best advice I can give you is don't try too hard. Make a happy life for yourself and someone will want to join you.

 

[Jdvn1]

Average age for men to marry is 28 (first marriage). That means there are a lot of men who marry in their 30s.

 

[Thornir Alekeg]

Not sure what to say. People can offer all the usual platitudes: "Give it time" Don;t worry, it will happen" etc. but who can really say. Only thing I can say is don't give up, and try not to seem too desperate to love someone. Be confident in yourself, and try and relax. When I finally did those things, it all came together.

 

[der_kluge]

I have had faith for so long that I'd find that special someone by putting my life in the hands in the one from up above...

<sigh> I'm tired of waiting. I know I am blessed for having a family that really cares about me, but it isn't enough., I have too much love to give to go through my life alone. I've tried multiple internet 'dating' sites and never even got a nibble.

I'm tired of being alone. I had to get this off my chest, I'm just so sick of being alone in a world of millions.

I am reminded of being in a mall one day and seeing a couple walk through the mall. She was a grossly overweight, hideous thing with lots of 20-year old clothes. He was a skinny, ugly, moustached-dude with cowboy boots and a cowboy hat. I turned to my Mom (they were visiting from out of town) and said, "It's true. There is someone for everyone."

So, she's out there, buddy. Just waiting for YOU!

Do you think there is something about *you* that would make you unappealing towards women? Are you wanting advice, or are you just wanting to complain? Either is fine, but if it's the former, tell us about yourself, and maybe we can provide some help on things that you can do to improve your chances?


This can't hurt, either:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...5/102-0188964-3023366?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

 

[Turanil]

I'm tired of being alone. I had to get this off my chest, I'm just so sick of being alone in a world of millions.

Frukathka, forgive me to speak rudely. Myself I had to lose 45 lb. before I found a woman to share my life (she is there as I type). I will thus strongly suggest a serious diet plus bodybuilding. Then, Internet is a sure way to NOT meet your soulmate. In any case, I wish for you to eventually find someone.

 

[Angel Tarragon]

I could stand to lose some weight, but I am fairly attractive. I had quite a few girlfriends in middle and high school.

der_kluge, I have that book. My parents bought it for me out of sympathy for my situation. It deals more on how to have a physical relationship with women. I'm not looking for that. I need an emotional relationship.

I get outside at least once a week, thats all I can afford, really.

I passed the 29 mark a week and a half ago.

 

[Darrin Drader]

I have three words for you: mail order bride.

 

[Belen]

I could stand to lose some weight, but I am fairly attractive. I had quite a few girlfriends in middle and high school.

der_kluge, I have that book. My parents bought it for me out of sympathy for my situation. It deals more on how to have a physical relationship with women. I'm not looking for that. I need an emotional relationship.

I get outside at least once a week, thats all I can afford, really.

I passed the 29 mark a week and a half ago.

Dude, just stop caring about it. Women can smell needy a thousand miles away. Stop caring about what they think about you and put all your fears away. Do not be afraid to talk with people etc.

 

[Angel Tarragon]

I have three words for you: mail order bride.

uh, heck no!