Hussar
Legend
True. Hurting people is bad. But, there are degrees of hurt and degrees of bad. And, there's also the point that sometimes things are in the past, have been resolved, and don't really need to be dragged into EVERY SINGLE conversation, every single time.Mitigate and deflect all you want, complain about how 'overplayed' pointing that out is, but hurting people is still bad no matter the degree.
Look, all I'm saying is that the unrelenting negativity in the fandom makes me very, very tired and I find that the signal to noise ratio gets to the point where real, true issues, where people are actually, truly getting hurt, get buried under the mountain of people screaming at the top of their lungs about stuff that's terribly important to them, but, at the end of the day, not all that important.