At last I can post again!
I don't know wether to laugh and cry... What ever I'll end up doing I learned a valuable lesson today, you can actually high jack your own thread in your own opening post!! Amazing but true.
And to add insult to injury I'm not sure if my edit of the OP went through (edit it didn't but I added it now) or not because it seems like the forum itself reacted badly to it and now refuse to let me enter so I'm writing this up in pages hopefully so I'll be able to post this later tonight (or tomorrow morning) once all the guys with the torches and pitchforks grow bored and leave (fat chance though

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So to the point, my "partially clothed females FTW" was a jest on the fact that 2e PHB had some of those, nothing more. Sometimes I forget though, that this being on-line, where we don't have the advantage of the instant feedback we have in face-to-face conversations, things that seems obvious to me as I write them seem like a different thing to the folks that read them
@ FinalSonicX, it's partially that it's more like a manual rather than a feeling it's one guy telling another about a cool game he's playing but it's mainly things like:
"play a dragonborn if you want...
to look like a dragon.
to breath fire.
Etc etc..."
I mean look like a dragon? What am I? Twelve?
That's one example but it's a vibe I get through reading the entire book, I never noticed this until I sat with some friends who never played 4e and had to go over the books for the first time in years (I usually just use the CB).
Warder