Yahoo personals, Match.com being sued for fraud.

[mojo1701]

A threadcrapper and a bad attitude. I forsee this one hitting more than a few ignore lists if this keeps up!

You said it.

 

[Infiniti2000]

Don't put all your beholders in one lair. Spread it out.

Dammit! Now you tell me.

 

[Aeson]

Dammit! Now you tell me.

All you had to do was ask. I have a very high WIS.

 

[Teflon Billy]

I have been thinking of trying eharmony, seems alot more "honest" then the other ones, but it is expensive. Worth it though?

Less expensive than escorts, I should think.

Though I would suspect there is a somewhat lesser "closure" rate.

 

[KenM]

TB, why you keep attacking me? Don't judge me unless you walk a mile in my shoes. You don't know my reasons behind why I did those things in the past.

 

[Teflon Billy]

No "attack" intended here man.

In the past you've both mentioned your use of escorts, and been farly up-front and unapologetic about it.

You mentioned that you considered EHArmony to be quite expensive, I was pointing out that you've gone to more expense for less "relationship" in the past.

If your feelings about your patronage of escorts has changed in the last few months, then I apologize...but I couldn't have known.

 

[nerfherder]

TB's answer reads like a statement of facts to me - there's no judgement made there.

You might not like people mentioning that you have used escort services in the past, but it was your decision to post that information on a public internet forum.

Cheers,
Liam

[Edit: I was typing as TB answered]

 

[KenM]

When I did use them, it was years ago. At the time I felt I was doing the right thing but I would not do it now.

 

[nerfherder]

When I did use them, it was years ago. At the time I felt I was doing the right thing but I would not do it now.

Fair enough.

To answer your question, I had never heard of eHarmony before it was mentioned on this thread, but I've had a quick look at the site now. To be honest, I'm not sure about the value of having in-depth personality tests, etc. An online profile is like a CV - it's just there to get the interview, I mean first date... It's part of the initial screening process (e.g. I never date women who smoke). It's only at the point where you meet someone face to face and interact with them that you get a really good idea of how compatible you are. I find a photo and a couple of paragraphs sufficient to give me a reasonable initial "feel" for someone. After a few emails, texts and phone calls, I know whether I want to meet up for a casual coffee. After a long chat in a coffee bar, I know whether I want to see them again for another date, meet them again as friends, or just not see them again.

As to whether this particular site is worth the money - you could always just try it for a month. I tend to find I get the largest interest in the first week I'm on a site.

Cheers,
Liam

 

[BOZ]

you, reveal.

ooh, an alt-id with a bad attitude!

and, apparently, not everything he says is an Admiral Akbar quote.